Hey
Reader —
I did a count this month and realized I've been posting things online for about 35 years. Started in 1991 on a thing called Gopher — text-based, clunky, thrilling. From there it's been radio station bulletin boards, homebrew CMSes, WordPress, a long stretch of writing 3,000 words a day before breakfast, and now this.
The embarrassing part: I haven't posted to my own personal site in about four years. Caregiving, COVID, my wife's recovery from three accidents, client work that filled every spare hour. The cobbler's kids really did have no shoes. I'm fixing it. The post I wrote about all of that is in the blog section below if you want the full story — but the short version is that this newsletter, and the writing on my own site, is going to be a more regular thing again.
Thanks for being here. Old reader or new — I'm glad you're around.
3 Things I'm Thinking About
One Thing I Learned This Week
Coaching the work is harder than doing the work. For most of my career, I was the guy who'd disappear into a doc at 11 p.m. and reappear with a polished thing at 6 a.m. This year I've been deliberately handing that off — not because I can't do it, but because someone else needs the reps. Every time I sit on my hands instead of jumping in, the team gets a little stronger and I have to accept that the version they ship isn't the version I'd have shipped. That gap is where leadership actually starts.
Links That Made Me Stop Scrolling
On the Podcast
This one's about Notion, Figma, Discord, LEGO Ideas, and a knitting site called Ravelry that has 11 million members and almost no growth strategy. The thread running through all of them: you don't engineer community, you build a place worth showing up to. It might be my favorite episode of the season so far.
Listen to the episode →New on My Blog
The full version of the story I started in the "Hey" section. Gopher in 1991. Homebrew CMSes in 2000. The four-year stretch where I went silent on my own site while everything else demanded attention. And what I'm doing about it now.
Read the post →Currently Taking On: A Few Coaching Conversations
I keep trying to wind down the coaching practice and people keep showing up with problems worth thinking through — leadership transitions, deciding whether to bring AI into a team, figuring out what the next 14 years of a career should look like. If that's the kind of conversation you've been wanting to have, the door's still open.
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